Cupid and Cannabis: Memories of the Weed-Filled Weddings We’ve Hosted in Mendocino


As you may well know, Lady Cannabis can be Cupid’s assistant. She’s been recognized to enable him aim an arrow at an individual dear, and then —&nbspbam! — they fall in appreciate. Her magical powers can open hearts to the wonders of the universe, internally and externally. And when your household has a garden complete of such luscious Girls, you can anticipate lots of appreciate to come into your residence!

We have hosted the marriages of a couple of mates right here at Turtle Creek Ranch in Mendocino, and each and every was valuable and exceptional. The pretty initial 1 was the mini-rave wedding reception for a young city couple, right after they had exchanged vows in a hot air balloon more than Napa Valley. Then, we hosted a complete-on Hindu ceremony — comprehensive with a Brahmin priest from India — for mates who are Hare Krishna devotees. One more time, Fuzzy and Amy from town got hitched right here on March Fourth (as in March Forth), and took more than our barn to serve a lobster dinner. And there was the wedding reception of fellow cannabis farmers Casey O’Neill and Amber Cline, who reside up on best of the ridge. The land visibly blossoms each and every time a wedding requires spot, or, for that matter, each time a kid is conceived (which has occurred right here, as properly).

Possibly the most uncommon matrimony celebration that took spot on our farm was also the simplest. It started many months prior to, when we received an e-mail from a couple living in Dubai who saw us on the VICELAND Weediquette episode about The Emerald Triangle. They wrote that they have been headed to the West Coast for their honeymoon and would appreciate absolutely nothing far more than to see the Redwoods and a cannabis garden. Contemplating they lived at the edge of the vast deserts of the Arabian Peninsula, we believed they have to be longing for some greenery. We do not commonly invite total strangers to come up to the ranch, but for some purpose we stated positive.

Soon after hearing absolutely nothing for about six months, we forgot all about it. Then, positive sufficient, Leah and Nick wrote saying they have been on their way, and would arrive on a particular Saturday in September. We had a booth at the nearby Cannabis Farmers Market place that day, so the strategy was to meet up there, bring them out to the ranch for a smoke and fast tour of the garden, and then they would commit the evening at their hotel nearby. They arrived as we have been closing up our booth right after a enjoyable day at the industry. And it turns out that they have been certainly a beautiful young couple. Leah was British and Nick was Dutch, but they each had grown up in Dubai. Pretty sweet.

The couple followed us up into the hills of Northern Mendocino County, deep into the heart of the Emerald Triangle. We drive up the twisty dirt roads so normally that we take it for granted, but most of our initial-time guests arrive in partial shock. “This is seriously out there!” is the most widespread expression when guests emerge from their vehicles. It is accurate, we seriously are at the finish of the road! And coming from Dubai, exactly where it is flat as a pancake, 1 can only think about their delight to witness the Douglas fir and Redwood-clad mountains.

As usual, our residence was a busy scene with mates and farmers. Joining a group in the living area to smoke a popular Swami joint, they sat suitable down and match suitable in. Shortly, Leah joined Nikki in the kitchen to get some drinks for absolutely everyone and they got to speaking.

“So how was your wedding, Leah?” Nikki asked, remembering they have been right here on their honeymoon.

“It was beautiful, but far more like a spiritual marriage with all our households there. Now we’ve come to America to have the official marriage… in Las Vegas,” she replied.

“Las Vegas!” That was a surprise. “Wasn’t the final marriage very good sufficient?”

Leah explained that their households lived all more than the globe, and so they chose a central spot to have a household gathering for their dream marriage. When asked exactly where they chose, she described the scene, “It was on the island of Ibiza, off of Spain. On a cliff overlooking the Mediterranean…”&nbsp

“And who married you? Did he speak quite a few languages?”

“Yes he did, which was good for all our households,” she answered.

“And was his name Melchior?” Nikki asked with an arched eyebrow.

Leah was stunned. “How do you know that?” she asked incredulously.

“Because he’s Swami’s son,” was the basic reply.


It nevertheless provides me shivers to feel of how we stared at each and every other in awe as we grasped how remarkable this was. We had somehow magically chosen these two people today out of actually thousands of emails to say: “Yes, come go to our ranch.” Out of all the locations in the globe, they initially had selected the island of Ibiza to collect their households, and they discovered Swami’s son, who lives there, to execute the wedding. And now, right here they have been, in our household. It seriously was extraordinary. Just about stranger than fiction.

The subsequent sentence out of Nikki’s mouth was inevitable. “Well then, if Melchior married you in Ibiza, it appears you really should get married right here by us! Swami has a minister’s license, so Melchior’s father will marry you officially this time!”

And so it came to be. Right here have been these two attractive young people today, coming from a spot of sand dunes alternatively of soaring evergreen trees, from a nation exactly where possession of a gram of cannabis signifies jail time, about to be married in a Mendocino cannabis garden. We agreed they would return to their hotel for the evening, and when they came back we would have their wedding sequel.&nbsp


It was a ideal wedding with practically no organizing. Naturally, the couple was unprepared, so Nikki dressed Leah — as properly as our going to mates Cassie and Emma who have been the bridesmaids — in some sophisticated Indian evening put on. Swami outfitted the males: Nick, the groom, in a white silk kurta (an Indian-style shirt) with a lengthy raw silk shawl. Our tall, red-headed pal Max wore a white jacket with sequins. Swami wore his Swami-very best, when Nikki posed as the mother of the bride in a lengthy evening gown. Max, in a dual part, played Father of the Bride and Ideal Man.

The bride’s bouquet was a fresh mix of flowers from our gardens, each cannabis and other varieties. Following some pre-nuptial joints, the marriage celebration processed across the large meadow on our ranch, all the way out to the garden. Max, as the makeshift “father,” escorted the bride down the “aisle” amongst the tall ripening cannabis plants, with the bridesmaids holding her train. It was all pretty formal, however California-style. Swami provided a spontaneous and sweet blessing, and then the couple exchanged private vows. The “mother” of the bride shed a couple of compulsory tears and the “father/very best man” gave the groom a large hug. The gods of Adore have been invoked, the couple kissed, and we sang the wedding march as we exited the garden all with each other.

The ceremony was followed by celebratory joints, champagne, and a fantastic feast — then some far more joints and a yummy cake we’d produced, also. The fortunate couple spent the evening in our “honeymoon suite” (the guest area), comprehensive with rose petals festooned across the bed.&nbsp


With pretty small organizing, we had hosted a attractive private marriage ceremony in the midst of our cannabis garden for Leah and Nick from Dubai. Though most couples commit months organizing and thousands of dollars, we’d place with each other a complete wedding in a day for subsequent-to-no expense.&nbsp

The following summer time, which was also the 50th anniversary of the Summer time of Adore, we &nbspdecided to celebrate our personal marriage once more — for the third time — right here on our land, at our Goddess Temple… but that is one more appreciate story for one more Valentine’s. As soon as once more, cannabis flowers adorned the bouquet and Ganja Ma showered her blessings on the wedded couple. And as soon as once more, Cupid got an assistant from Lady Cannabis.&nbsp

[Editor’s Note: Before you email us asking to book a wedding at the Swami Select ranch, you should know they are not in the business of regularly hosting marriages at the ranch… but there is always serendipity!]

For far more on Nikki and Swami, go to Swami Select’s site right here


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